Understanding that my partner expresses his love, care and concern differently from my idea of receiving love, care and concern, took a lot of effort. In the beginning, I kept second guessing his feelings and intentions. But slowly, I began to understand the way he loves. Ever since then, I stopped expecting silently or giving hints, I’d tell him straight what I’d like.
And to my surprise, he made several conscious effort to meet my expectations. For that, I am grateful and feel very much loved. Throughout our time together we managed to better our communication and continue to learn and understand one another.
It feels like we’re on this journey together and it simply feels nice. I’m excited to experience what’s ahead of us, both highs and lows, we’ll embrace it together.